Cancer connection

 Adding more to my hospital stay, I'm glad that Rob didn't know that I could have visitors, as I was frail then, and also for a couple of days had a GI tube in my nose (really charming).  I have to speak about my bed. The mattress itself was quite comfortable, but because the bed could change positions, there were supporting bars to support the movement. THAT was very uncomfortable. My butt usually landed on it, and my back (usually not problematic) was screaming. The heating pad helped some. So did walking who I was able to. The staff was exemplary. I was well taken care of, something I'm not really used to. Everyone was upbeat, and respected my wishes not to learn my odds of living. That is something I can't change, and if I knew it was 1% or so (for example), I might want to stop fighting at some point. Miracles do happen, and before this, I was pretty healthy, so I'm hoping that will help me , at least gain some years to see my son get married (if he wants, and ...

 I'm starting this to people can understand my experience dealing with cancer, especially during COVI-19. I got my diagnosis on the16th of November. It was recommended that I go to Boston the next day for tests. I was told I'd be there a week, but it ended up being 3.  I had no interest in food at all. I ended up having all kinds of problems.  I ended up getting Colostomy bag. My heart was in defibrillation, I had a couple of fevers. It took me a while to bounce back, but I did, so much so that the d.s and nurses were "impressed". I got to the point where I was walking laps around the nurses' station. The station is surrounded by rooms, so they have. quick access, and a nice amount of space to make it worth while. On one of my loops, I noticed a poster on the wall with dogs and their names. On the flip side you could see who owned the dogs. They made me use a walker, and at 1st have someone with me, but within a few days, I sped up, so they said they didn't ne...